1Co 7:7 For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that. Mat 19:11 But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given. Much shorter than my last topic: To whom is it given, how do we determine our lot given us in life - how do we "know" if we should marry or not? Thanks.