I am getting married in 3 weeks to a beautiful inside and out Christian girl. She works at a hospital as an x-ray tech and I will be in school until the spring of 08. I work 35 hours a week but only make $6.00 an hour which comes out to about $753.00 a month. So I am still in school and don't make a lot of cash, she will be making much more money than me for the first year and a half. I am going to be a special education teacher and baseball coach, so she will still make more money than me after I graduate. What is the best way to deal with this in a Christian, Godly way. Some feel that the man should be the "bread winner" so to speak. I feel a man can lead his house despite not making as much as his wife. Also not many male high school/middle school teachers/coaches make more than there wife if the wife has a college degree. My fiance has mentioned me getting a second job but I can't work 2 jobs and go to school and I feel that wouldn't leave me enough time to be a husband, not to mention the responsibilites I have to the church and to the Lord. I KNOW the Lord will supply our needs but what is the best way to go about paying bills and everything else that goes along with a marriage if my woman is making more money than me? Thank you very much.