Arminianism says All Will of man Can Do is resist , Not Accept God grace!

IF one goes out on arminian web sites that state their theology...

reading thru their version of TULIP...
what struck me most is that in some ways same theology same as cals, BUT

Keep reading that man, even while enabled by Gods prevailing Grace in their lives...

that the Will of man STILL even while under effects of grace ,

man can Only reject Christ, not irrestible grace, so Will not bent to auto excepting Christ, so IF they reject their free will will overide Will of God that they not perish
accept Jesus, can reject salvation even after regenerated by God
turn away for a time, can make final decision to aposty by free will

IF a person can freely choice to accept Christ, freely chose to backslide, freely choose to not even be a Christian after actual regeneration..
Even though Will of God is that NONE perish, ALL come conformed to image of Christ after salvation...

How can an Arminian really hold that their free will does not trump over Will of God as ultimate source/basis of salvation?

Please Note: Ran out of space on header, wanted to say man Will, while even enabled by grace of God can resist fully Will of God!