This is for pastors and their wives: I know that church members expect you to be perfect and sometimes treat you differently from others simply because you are a pastor or a pastor's wife. I am sure that you've been hurt at congregations. Can you share some ways you've been hurt at congregations you've served at? How can people in the congregations be more sensitive to your feelings? What was the most hurtful things people said to you? I know sometimes people unintentionally hurt your feelings.