If this is a site where we can come to share views, edify & enlighten, basically be a safe haven for us, then how come I get so down after posting ? I read a post where a "christian" was basically telling somebody not to bother becoming a christian because they might not be chosen anyway. I have read posts telling me I'm ignorant because I take the bible literally. When I see this kind of stuff, & respond, I get depressed. Now I know that I shoudn't worry about what others think of me, but does anyone else experience this ? Does biblical separation mean I shouldn't be here ?