can a person get "new heart" in them from the Lord, yet still exercise their own "free will" and refuse to accept the Lord jesus in as Saviour? just curious, as dont some here hold that there can be a long interval between 2 aspects of salvation? God can regenerate someone at age 3 but actually become saved at 20? or regenerated but still refuses to believe in jesus and be saved? Do Arminians hold that God can regenerate someone, but they can stay refuse to accept Christ? or is it faith first than regenerated by God? Calvinism states that man MUST become saved excercise their faith due to regeneration? just HOW do both sides see the OP?