"Can you be MORE than a church?"

I'm still not sure what you are saying. Are you saying that because you can't find a good church, you attend 2 different churches that you call apostate and ask lots of questions of them and attend their soup kitchens trying to convert people to the truth? If so, I have a few thoughts:

1. I think that you are wasting your time worshiping at known apostate churches if there are other churches around that do at least preach the gospel (no matter how pathetic you think them to be in many areas).

2. It is noble to want to win people to Christ, but as this post suggests, until you are in a church yourself, you have nowhere to plug them in so they can grow. They will most likely stay in their churches and end up very confused about many things.

3. If you are not saying what my summary above says, you need to re-write your entire thought, because I'm having trouble following what you are saying.