What I'm about to write will upset or shock some people at this board. Let me begin by saying that I made a profession of faith in 1994 and was baptized. I thought the christian life would be quiet easy as long as i pray and read His word. About 4 months after i fell into sexual sin, I felt horrible and was confuse. I cry out to God for forgiveness. But then it happened again about 4 months later. In the last 3 years it has occurred in an average of 3 times a year. I was starting to have doubts about my salvation even though i spent many hours studying his word. By the way, I'm a single man and never been married. I left my ex girlfriend to follow the Lord. I try to win her for Christ but unknowingly she already had a boyfriend. I was depressed and betrayed and that was the beginning of my sexual sins. I loved her very much but she was unsaved. As time goes on I have been able to control myself from sexual sin but once in a while i do fall into other uncleanness besides fornication. The root of my problem has been pornography and it has lead to acting out those sins. I do desire to marry someday but I must change if God would bless me. I attend church regularily and continue to study His word. Since 1994 it's been a battle of flesh and spirit. How many would say I'm saved? How many would say I'm not saved? Is salvation by my good works? Shouldn't there be fruit or evidence of my salvation. I appreciate all comments whether nice or bad, and any tips on how to have victory over temptation. God bless!