I joined a Christian dating site a few years ago. This way you can choose the qualities of a person whom you are looking for. This avoids wasting time, money and fruitless effort. I know you have to be careful with sites like these for there are a lot of freaks out there but I am so glad that it worked out for me. I met a great woman from the Philippines. After corresponding with her for several months I flew out to the Philippines. Man I love it here! This place is totally awesome!