Confessing to each other....

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When people make me angry, I sometimes have trouble with...

  1. displaying a short fuse

    5 vote(s)
    21.7%
  2. stewing on it internally and brooding

    18 vote(s)
    78.3%
  3. pouting

    1 vote(s)
    4.3%
  4. obsessing about having the last word

    6 vote(s)
    26.1%
  5. having a judgmental spirit

    14 vote(s)
    60.9%
  6. being an unforgiving person

    6 vote(s)
    26.1%
  7. other (specify)

    3 vote(s)
    13.0%
  8. I don't have anger problems

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
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  1. Scarlett O.

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    "Open confession is good for the soul." - Scottish proverb

    This may look like a superficial poll, but I really want it to be effective in the sense that confession to one another is a good thing and we could also see that we are perhaps not alone in our shortcomings.

    Who knows....we might even start praying for each other and doing some repenting!
     
  2. I Am Blessed 24

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    Well, I see I am in the majority for right now. :BangHead:
     
  3. Eric B

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    Sounds like a temperament test. After all, temperament can often be measured by those things: (extroverts will tend to have a short fuse , introverts will stew on it internally and brood. relationship-oriented people will be more likely to forgive, and so on.

    Here's my new page breaking down the whole concept:
    http://members.aol.com/etb700/temperament1.html
     
  4. Baptist Believer

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    I have a bad habit of ruthlessly taking people apart logically, piece-by-piece, not allowing them to save face. I can usually win the argument, but I lose the opportunity to win a brother or sister's fellowship.
     
  5. FBCPastorsWife

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    Stewing internally....that's me to a capital T!!!! It eventually makes me physically ill if it keeps on with no resolution. Truthfully, I am better than I used to be!
     
  6. mcdirector

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    I tend to stew on things internally period. I hit the internal replay and do it over and over and over. I don't get angry very often. BUT if I don't like the way a situation went, man, the stew goes on.
     
  7. Dr. Bob

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    I don't get angry.

    I get even. :eek:
     
  8. TC

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    Sometimes I have a very short fuse, but most of the time I stew - just like a slow cooker. I must learn to deal with anger in a better way. Either extreme is wrong and causes problems for me and for others.
     
  9. SaggyWoman

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    bump.................................................
     

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