A 14yr. old boy goes to his pastor and tells him he thinks he is gay. The pastor who is not a certified counselor begins to counsel him on a weekly basis without the parents knowing. He tells the boy he needs to tell his parents but the boy doesn't want to. The family leaves the church not knowing there is any counseling going on. The pastor stops the counsel and does not tell the parents. 4 years later the parents are told by the now 18 yr old that he is gay. Leaving them to try and deal with this problem with an adult instead of a minor. Is this legal?