Crystal Springs Apology for Barring Black Wedding Seriously? Did this guy fail Pastoring 101. If it was the pastor's idea to apologize this way, either he needs to grow up and stop letting the powers that be push him into a seemingly castrated state, or he needs to step down from being anyone's pastor. The way that this entire thing has been handled is abysmal and if I were in the congregation, would be questioning whether I needed to be under this man's leadership. Even if he is just the do-man of certain folks in the church. If he can't take a stand and start doing things RIGHT, folks need to get on up out of there.