I have a question and some of you may be able to help us here. I haven't had too many people outside of the people we know to ask this question it is more of a prayer burden that I have for our daughter she is in a highly recommended college.Our daughter is happy there and seems to be OK with it. I wanted her to be happy where she was and to be in the right place where the Lord would have her and doing God's will in her life. I thought when she went to college I thought that she would miss being at home I think she may have been at first ,but then suddenly she seemed distant she has only been home one time since she left,she is in her third year.She has no contact with anyone she has in her church family,friends,school or other family very much other than her Dad and I. That is not too often either. I realize she needs space to grow and make decisions.I thought we were still family and that we would want to keep a real relationship going. I'm hurt and quite confused.My husband and I did see her at her sisters this last summer she came with her roomates parents and she was so distant from us. I don't get it. Well I realize that each situation is different ,but I still want to see my daughter and I want to have a relationship with her I've thought about asking someone at the college if I could talk to someone and they could help us to cope it it very difficult. We wanted to go to college for her to seek where the Lord wanted her ,but not to disengage herself. Missing our daughter. She can go on for weeks and not even e-mail or even call us.