I am dating a woman that is 33 yrs old & I am 34. She is living on her own & owns a house. Her mother is quite controlling, & has an agenda to make my love guilty of loving me, and to cause division between us. I have never met her mother and dont care too. This mother will do whatever we can to cause division between us. She will read things out of context, accuse me of things I did not do, etc.. Like last night this mother told my love something about me that was completely false. This mother has an agenda no question about it. How can my love deal with a controlling person like this? How can I? Thanks..