question: i love my ministries in teaching 3rd grade children, preaching in jr. church and my nursing home ministry, however i have not been happy in my local church for years. i do not feel that i have a pastor to counsil with, a good preacher,yes, but not a pastor. the church i'm in is cold and indefferent. i have looked at other churches, but frankly don't believe "running" is the answer. HELP!!