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Discussion in '2004 Archive' started by amixedupmom, Jul 1, 2004.

  1. amixedupmom

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    Molly it's about this

    My sin is mine and mine alone. I have to carry that burden. I have to live with what I do. I choose to do things that are sin. Others, I constantly work on.

    This isn't about Churches telling members this and that. It's not about accountablity i'm ALL for that. What this is about is one person taking it upon themself to rid another person of sin. To stand in the LORD's place and pass judgement.

    This is about the times i've heard "KJV 1611 Is the only Bible" , about all the times I've heard. "You should never wear pants". This is about all the times iv'e heard, "You shouldn't watch movies". "You shouldn't do this, or that or this or that."

    True these things are sinning in some form or another. Depending on which and which one. The one about the KJV 1611, -shakes head- It's not the only Bible. There were Bibles before and Bibles after. GOOD ones at that. TRUE ones.

    I understand that brothers and sisters want to help people and help thier lives better. The only thing that this kind of treatment has done is drive me away from a church I once held dear.

    This is not about a church, this is about saved christians -takes a breath and get's blunt- Who think that they have the LORD's phone number in their pocket who have forgotten that they are sinners and who look down thier nose, and cricify new christians for not doing what "THEY" deam is correct. This post is about someone standing up and saying things that hurt. This is about people standing up and being cruel JUST to get a point across. This is about people forgetting that the LORD who saved them, preached TOLERANCE and LOVE before everything else and who's soul purpose is FORGIVENESS.

    And, i've forgiven those who have hurt me. That is the way I am. But, there are other GOOD people out there who will be pushed away from the WORD, the TRUTH, the LIGHT, all because of what they choose to wear.

    I'm sorry but, as a SAVED woman, I have to let that person know that it dosen't matter what you wear, where you live, what Bible you read, as LONG AS YOU BELIEVE. That is what it's about.

    Jesus didn't die on the cross so that we could be spiteful and petty about what he wanted us to do. he died on the cross so that we could be spiteful and petty and still get to heaven.

    ;) God Bless

    Wendy
     
  2. Joseph_Botwinick

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    Wendy,

    Let them know that. That is wonderful that you do this. But, don't let this turn into an Unbiblical judgmental rant of those who you think are being judgmental at the same time. If a brother or sister in Christ has offended you, you should take that up with them instead of talking about them behind their back I am guessing on a message board. Has someone offended you lately? Then go talk to them. Don't talk to us about them. We are not the ones who offended.

    Joseph Botwinick
     
  3. amixedupmom

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    No your not. Not at all. I really don't know one person who has judged me here.

    It's about the diffrent posts I read, all the arguing here and in RL. It's about people losing thier TRUE focus on the LORD, cause they are so busy downing others. I didn't think that I would be responding much to this tread as I have. But, I am [​IMG] .

    this thread as I stated before was to make sure people knew what it took to get to heaven. It's spawned off into my own hurt, and more explinations as to why I started it. But, that dosen't deviate from the beginning post.

    There is only one way to get to heaven, Though the blood of our savior, the rest is just that the rest.

    Once you become a Saved person, God begins to clean you up. Slowly and surely. He'll bring you to the right church, right fellowship, right decisions about your life. As he has done for me. I just wanted everyone to know that's how he works.
     
  4. Charles Meadows

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    "Wendy,

    Let them know that. That is wonderful that you do this. But, don't let this turn into an Unbiblical judgmental rant of those who you think are being judgmental at the same time. If a brother or sister in Christ has offended you, you should take that up with them instead of talking about them behind their back I am guessing on a message board. Has someone offended you lately? Then go talk to them. Don't talk to us about them. We are not the ones who offended.

    Joseph Botwinick"

    I think it is a significant issue, and one not just to be addressed with this or that person with whom we find fault. There are entire churches, and many of them, operating with this Pharisaic theology. It is nothing short of false doctrine. "Fundamental" believers sometimes get so caught up with one or two verses of Paul that they forget the example Jesus left for us in the gospels. The problem I see is that there are a number of churches whose "religion" may more properly be called Literal Bibliolatry, and NOT Christianity.

    Again the problem is not that an individual person here or there gets "snippy" with us - it't that certain parts of Christianity have really ceased to be, well, Christian!!
     
  5. Joseph_Botwinick

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    Ths is true Charles.

    However, the source of Wendy's rant would seem to be posts and statements by people who are members of this board, and not a whole organization. If it is indeed a whole segment or church within Christianity, then we should name them, list their heresy, separate from them, and pray for their salvation.

    Joseph Botwinick
     
  6. amixedupmom

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    Joseph when I come across a post that bothers me, I always say that i'm praying for them.
     
  7. amixedupmom

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    Charles I think my point is both. I'm a new christian and am too young to make a judgement on "Churches" as a whole. I can only do what I do, ask individuals to follow Christ's example.
     
  8. Hawnter

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    Thank you for this much needed discussion.
    You've said it quite well Lea and Charles.
    Like you, I have been very burdened by this issue.
    In some churches, we can get too focused on what we do instead of who we are in Christ.

    [ July 02, 2004, 02:37 PM: Message edited by: Hawnter ]
     
  9. Charles Meadows

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    I think when it's all said and done all we can do is try our best to emulate Christ. When you think about it - I guess it is human nature to miss the mark. God gave us something perfect and we messed it up. But then I guess that's why we needed a savior! [​IMG]
     
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  11. amixedupmom

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    AMEN!!!!!!!!!! [​IMG]
     
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    I was told that if I was led to Christ with anything BUT a KJV 1611, then I wasn't saved. I was told this straight to my face by a Pastor of a church that I had put my heart and soul into. To say I was devasted would be an understatement. How do you respond to that? I thought I was saved by the Holy Spirit and the redemption of Christ's atonement for sin, but apparently this Baptist sect didn't believe so because alot of members said "Amen" ... funny they let me join the church, be the secretary, lead the children in the Christmas play, pick up children on the bus, help with VBS and fill in for Sunday School teachers when they were out, being that I was saved with an NIV ... very peculiar indeed ...

    Kathy
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  13. amixedupmom

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    This is the very thing that i'm talking about. We can sit down and nit pick everything having to do with salvation. But, that dosen't change what salvation is . Salvation is believing in
    JESUS CHRIST that he DIED for you and that only though him can you get to heaven.
     
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    We need to get our eyes off other people,and get our eyes on Jesus!The more we think on these people the more we become like them.I feel for ya sister.If we are honest we must confess we have all been there.Its a miserable place to be.Turn away!
     
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    Forgive them,love them,Pray for them.
     
  16. amixedupmom

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    Amen RTG ....
     
  17. Charles Meadows

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    "I was told that if I was led to Christ with anything BUT a KJV 1611, then I wasn't saved."

    This may sound harsh - but I think anyone who could espouse this view is HIMSELF likely not saved. This clearly makes the death and resurrection subordinate to a specific piece of paper. This is satanic false teaching of the worst kind!!!!
     
  18. amixedupmom

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    I understand your frustration Charles. But, it's a fact that a LOT of people believe like this. In the KJV1611, there is nothing saying it's the only "correct" translation. But, this is not a debate on KJV1611, NIV, Living Bible or any other version. The facts are the facts

    1. Baptism is a step of obedience after salvation. Now notice that I said obedience. I did not say that you shouldn't or couldn't. I think that you should.

    2. You don't have to belong to a church in order to be saved. It helps, believe me it helps to be around other people who believe the same you do. Finding a church after salvation should be as important or really MORE important than buying a house, car , or anything else you would put a LOT of thinking in. The right church will bring you internal peace. The wrong church will make you steer clear of them. SOME (I said some not ALL ) some saved people who do not attend church are not really backslidden, they are frustrated they can't find one that believes as they do. I have a few SAVED friends in this. I pray daily for them and their search.

    3. The last thing I said, you don't have to take communion, you don't have to confess to a priest, or anything other than believe in Christ. Just believe , with your whole heart. It might sound easy, but to be honest it is. It's living after that is sometimes hard. Letting go of all those things we do that are not good for us.

    While this tread began on a personal note about how I felt about a few real life situations. I think that it has become apparent that i'm not the only one in this. I think that it is plain to see.

    I also think that now we have gotten that out of the way we have a solid chance in helping each other.

    I have quite a few things that I need to stop doing. Speaking my mind is not one of them. I'm not taking anything out on board members. What I am doing is what I see everyone else doing. Putting my personal belifs up and then defending them. I've apologized at times because they have stung others. I'm sorry that they have. But, I assure you some of other's personal beliefs have gotten to me too.

    I am not a KJO, Personally I could never be. It is not my PLACE to say which Bible is accurate. I could debate all day on why one is better over another. I will tell you what I do.

    KJV1611 -&gt; first .... I always go to this one first

    NIV-&gt; Second ... to see it in another light.

    I know many do not believe this and will tell me that i'm wrong. That's ok, it's their right to do so. They can scream at me if they wish, Chastize me, and whatever they feel the need to do. It's alright.

    As the song goes...

    you can talk about me all that you please.. I'll talk about you down on my knees.

    Thank you for taking the time to read this unusually long butt in.. But, I felt the need to express myself one final time and make sure the explinations were what I wanted others to see. I realize in my first post I was very general. Hopefully this will help.


    Thank you

    Wendy
     
  19. Charles Meadows

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    Wendy Lea,

    I agree with all your assertions. My translation of choice is the KJV - but I really hate to see people worship a bible and not God!!

    There are some people here with some really interesting (and frustrating) views but the dialogue is still fun! [​IMG]
     
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