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Facial Jewelry

Discussion in '2003 Archive' started by Istherenotacause, May 7, 2003.

  1. I Am Blessed 24

    I Am Blessed 24 Active Member

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    I refuse to believe that God made Eve an ugly outfit to wear. I also do not think He wants us to look dowdy. Who ever heard of buying an ugly dress? :confused:

    And I am NOT giving my husband back the beautiful gold ring he saw fit to put on my finger when we got married! :rolleyes:

    I cannot see where anyone has the right to judge another because they curl their hair, wear modest earrings and buy a dress that looks nice. These things have nothing to do with my Christianity.

    If God is so set against beautiying things; why was all that money given to build the Temple? Even nature shows us that God loves beauty. My body is a temple and I will take care of it as I and the Lord see fit.

    [​IMG]
    Sue
     
  2. Headcoveredlady

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    Sue,
    Would you agree that many Christian women adorn the outside while neglecting the inside?

    Discretion, gentleness and quietness are what GOd calls beautiful. Shouldn't we also call these beautiful?

    I did not say that *you* ignored the inside, but I have noticed many Christian women who are loud and aggresive, bossy to their husbands, and gossips WHO ADORN themselves with gold, pearls and costly array as well as well done up hairdos.
     
  3. I Am Blessed 24

    I Am Blessed 24 Active Member

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    Yes I have HCL. But I think this type of woman would be that way whether she adorned herself or not. [​IMG]

    I respect your convictions. I believe you to be a very Godly woman. I, myself, have not been convicted that every type of adornment is wrong. I think it has to do with the motive behind wearing it and only God knows our hearts and our motives.

    Blessings,
    Sue
     
  4. Gina B

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    Jewelry's pretty, some people have good taste others do not. Rings, bracelets, and necklaces annoy me and get in my way so I don't wear them just because of that. I have my ears pierced a few times and would wear earrings if I could afford them. Anything but pure gold causes an allergic reaction and I lose earrings too often to bother buying them just to drop down the drain or whatever. LOL
    I have thought about getting a tiny little eyebrow ring though. They're cute! [​IMG] Ankle bracelets and toe rings are fun on occasion.
    It is annoying to see on men though. Rings and necklaces on men doesn't bother me, but earrings and stuff do. Makes 'em look prissy IMO.
    Gina
     
  5. PJ

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    Ditto. [​IMG]
    PJ
     
  6. Preacher Nathan Knight

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    I once heard a preacher speaking about men wearing jewelry say:

    "If a man will wear lace around his neck, he just might wear it somewhere else."
     
  7. christine

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    Motivation and intent is probably what matters. I have 3 earrings in each ear. I pierced them myself when I was 15 yrs.old.
    I knew I would get beat for it, so I decided I would just do them all at once. I only got one beating, for the price of six holes. I felt it was worth the risk at the time. [​IMG]
    I also have a small diamond on my left nostril, this was something I always promised myself, if I could make it thru 20 yrs. in the Navy.
    I go to church every week and I have had nobody make me feel uncomnfortable. Any of the earrings I wear, I wear for me, so I feel good. Not to seduce or attract attention.
    In fact, my husband bought me a pair of $1,500.00 earrings for valentines day. I wear them with dresses and jeans alike. Noboy knows how much they cost, so what does it matter.
    This verse is referring to doing things which lead to sin. Seduction, adultry, fornicating, reasons you would want to attract or lure.
    Christine
     
  8. LadyEagle

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    Just jumping in here - haven't read through the whole thread. The men in Biblical times wore earrings, in case anyone cares.

    Just a simple search pulled up these:

    Exod.32[2] And Aaron said unto them, Break off the golden earrings, which are in the ears of your wives, of your sons, and of your daughters, and bring them unto me.

    [3] And all the people brake off the golden earrings which were in their ears, and brought them unto Aaron.

    Exod.35[22] And they came, both men and women, as many as were willing hearted, and brought bracelets, and earrings, and rings, and tablets, all jewels of gold: and every man that offered offered an offering of gold unto the LORD.

    Num.31[50] We have therefore brought an oblation for the LORD, what every man hath gotten, of jewels of gold, chains, and bracelets, rings, earrings, and tablets, to make an atonement for our souls before the LORD.

    Judg.8[24] And Gideon said unto them, I would desire a request of you, that ye would give me every man the earrings of his prey. (For they had golden earrings, because they were Ishmaelites.)

    [25] And they answered, We will willingly give them. And they spread a garment, and did cast therein every man the earrings of his prey.

    [26] And the weight of the golden earrings that he requested was a thousand and seven hundred shekels of gold; beside ornaments, and collars, and purple raiment that was on the kings of Midian, and beside the chains that were about their camels' necks.

    Someone more knowledgeable than I am could probabaly expound on the earring thing for slaves in Biblical times - I think I heard something about that once, too.

    Too much ado over nothing, this facial /earring jewelry thread, IMO.

    The verse about a woman adorning herself outwardly means for a woman not to make herself up to look like a temple prostitute.

    Helps to keep things in perspective as to the people Paul was writing to and what was going on in their society, IMO. But the same thing could be said for today...don't look like a prostitute, isn't the same thing as saying don't wear makeup or jewelry.
     
  9. LadyEagle

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    OH, NO! :eek: I killed it. I really killed it. I really managed to kill this thread! :rolleyes: :D [​IMG] [​IMG] [​IMG]
     
  10. Ben W

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    I did not realise that people in the bible wore earrings. That is certainley interesting.
     
  11. Istherenotacause

    Istherenotacause New Member

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    Oh, it is a needful area of discussion. Especially when you look at some of the posts, you see why so many people fall into newly created traditions that were birthed out of rebellion and attitudes extending all the way back before Exodus and lifestyles of the Egyptians.These same posts speak for themselves.

    I did like the verses you posted, only if we all would see that these people were "giving up" the earings, etc., for a specific cause in each individual case. Does anyone reckon the Lord would want us to give up anything concerning jewelry to avoid distractions and also to lay aside "weights" that might "beset" us from our circumspect walk with Christ?
     
  12. Abiyah

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    What disturbs me is the idea of another telling an
    individual that "face jewelry" must be given up (or
    that they must stop wearing it) because it is
    offensive to the "Christian cause" or because they
    have decided that it is the "weight . . . which so
    easily beset us." When an item or an idea is not
    condemned in the Bible, how can one dare tell
    someone that it is legitimately condemned?

    If I decide for myself that my own "face jewelry"
    is a problem, fine; however, if I try to tell others
    that because it is wrong for me, therefore it must
    be wrong for them, I have stepped out of my
    personal boundaries and into theirs.
     
  13. Istherenotacause

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    That type of thinking proves the serpent right and we are become gods, and the LORD has no right to teach us anything by principle or by example, saying He has to spell it out for us in black and white or it's unacceptable.

    We are taught to remain in moderation and to let it be known of all men, so there is definitely a rule to go by and "costly array" is surely an example to avoid in outward adorning as to remain moderate in appearance.

    One must remember two things: One that man can't look on the inward and see the heart, it must be expressed outwardly to be seen, Two, is that we are trying to witness to people and not God who knows our very inner being better than we ourselves.

    If a person wishes to risk their character by and through expressing their appearances, certainly they have that right, but they also should consider the reaction people will have towards them for the outlandish adorning they want to portray. It doesn't make them any less of a person, as their pride would buck up to anyone who tries to tell them different, but certainly their appearance dictates to how others will react to them, so facial jewelry plays an important role in our testimony.

    Abiyah, I see your picture and I don't see anything considered out of the ordinary in facial jewelry, but would you sprinkle yourself with glitter and wear thirteen piercings on one side of your face alone and then dare anyone to say something to you about it?
     
  14. Abiyah

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    All right, you young whipper-snapper! Where do
    we get these younguns today? 8oD I admit it --
    my jaw dropped, and I laughed right out loud at
    your reply!

    Honey, you have confused wearing "face jewelry"
    with completely overdoing wearing jewelry, to the
    point of being tasteless! Where did I ever say to
    wear an over abundance of jewelry? And while
    wearing too much jewelry is tasteless, so are tacky
    clothes; are we going to make tacky clothing a
    spiritual issue as well?

    You noted that I don't wear a lot of jewelry. I don't.
    In that photo, I had on a necklace, my engagement
    ring, wedding ring, and maybe a bracelet.
    Sometimes, I wear earrings, sometimes even two
    or three on one ear, but they are magnetic: I have
    not pierced my body anywhere yet.

    But when you decide that your taste in jewelry
    and clothing is our God's taste, you are, indeed,
    out of bounds. You can tell me I am in the devil's
    territory to say that, but I will tell you that you have
    become a pharisee to say the opposite. 8o)

    Smile! Love ya'!
     
  15. Gib

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    "You think you're wearing a bunch of jewelry, look at me. I pity the fool."

    Mr. T
     
  16. Istherenotacause

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    My how that term "Pharisee" is so loosely thrown around, aimed at those who especially we don't agree with. [​IMG]

    What I was trying to get across to you is that by your "preferences" on facial jewelry is that you in turn are dictating what should be accepted as the norm. The Biblical precept of the older women teaching the younger is expressed by your life, Sister, whether you or anyone else likes it or not. So if you don't prefer something for yourself, keep in mind that you effect the affections of all those that lookup to you.

    Big ole HUGE G I G A N T I C :D & a [​IMG] to go with it!!!!!! (That's for you, Abiyah!)

    Now, back to the original thread: where is it found that things like eyebrow rings came from? I don't even see them anywhere in our Bible. Now, do these type of adornings have their roots in what is called "gothic"? Are they of middle-eastern descent? Anyone have any input without getting so "physical"?
     
  17. Abiyah

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    Now, I did not intend to make you cry a tear! ( [​IMG] )
    Nor was I calling you a Pharisee! I was saying that
    if you can say that I follow the route of the serpent,
    I can, in turn, say that you are following the way of
    the Pharisee, who put greater burdens upon others
    by their additions to the biblical precepts! 8oD



    When I live my life, indeed, I am living an example
    of the believers! You got that one right, and thank
    you. Indeed, I am careful about my dress, jewelry,
    makeup, mouth, ethics, where I go and don't go, my
    studies, etc. This is a privilege I love which our Lord
    has entrusted to me. However, my opinions
    regarding things not laid out in the Bible are, in my
    opinion, of no consequence.

    Perhaps I think this way because I was in a
    pharisaical church for over fifty years, and the
    whole concept of extrabiblical rules is one I can
    not support anymore, although I was once a
    teacher of them.

    I believe we should teach the Bible, teach it
    strongly, and not back down from one part of it,
    but when it comes to those outside-the-Bible
    issues, we should live them and keep our mouths
    shut. 8o)

    In that church, one pastor's wife told me to tell
    one of my 15-year-old Sunday school girls, who
    was also a church member, not to wear her
    earrings. I told her I would not do it. That little
    girl is now my son's wife and the mother two of
    my beautiful little grandsons, a godly woman,
    who teaches her four- and two-year-old BIble
    verses, tucks them in bed with prayers, and loves
    them. I am glad I said no to that woman, who was,
    indeed, pharisaical. Had I done this, it could have
    done major damage. 8o)



    Thank you! You are a sweetheart! 8oD

    Just to answer, I don't know, but I have been
    accused of bein "Gothic"' because I wear a lot of
    black! 8o) I just call that slimming! Perhaps, when
    I lose my weight, I will still wear a lot of black --
    we'll see. 8oD
     
  18. I Am Blessed 24

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    I just heard of a new trend. "Tongue splitting"! To me, this is mutilation. The people who have run out of places to pierce are now having their tongues split because they think it is beautiful!

    They even have to learn to talk all over again.

    Where will this insanity stop??? :eek:
     
  19. Abiyah

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    ridiculous
     
  20. RomOne16

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    Oh Pleeeeeze, can we?! [​IMG] That would eliminate grown women walking around in coulottes! :D I would gladly give up my right to a nosering (which I don't have, BTW) if coulottes would be banned also. [​IMG]

    Now back to your regularly scheduled program..... :D
     
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