What is your thoughts on birth control in any form. Why and when we as christian people decided that it's ok to plan our families and use birth control? We've been married for almost eight years, now that I look back and I actually remember our pastor suggesting to wait atleat a year before we have a child, how about trusting God in all our ways? We did wait and had a child about 2 years later, we also waited about 2 more years before trying again, and we did had another child with little more than 2 years between them, but than we seriously started to question our reasons for stopping pregnancies, why? We know that God is in control of the womb, children are blessings from God, than why do we control when/how many to have like we know better. We could not come up with a single reason, but being selfish and not wholly trusting God. I just don't understand why this is not being encouraged in church, other way around, large families are being looked down on, like they are being foolish by having so many kids. I let some people know that we are letting God plan our family, and the answers I get, pretty much that God gave us wisdom and brain so we should use it, WOW. After a long Bible study we just could not find anything that supports ANY kind of birth control.