First Date

Discussion in 'Youth Forum' started by SaggyWoman, Sep 6, 2001.

  1. SaggyWoman

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    How much is considered "letting a guy pursue" and asking out for dates and first dates, and how much is considered the girl being agressive?
     
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    Things have changed a great deal. I've heard numerous guys say that they wish more girls would be open enough to ask them out instead of the guy asking the girl. I was raised that I was not allowed to call a guy but he could call me, of course that changed a few years into my teenage years but some guys do like a girl to be one asking and other guys I've known like to do the persuing.

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    So much for shamefacedness . . .
     
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    So much for what! [​IMG]
     
  6. Joy

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    Calling a gentlemen on the phone, or asking one out, is pursuit. My husband sought me out completely. If a woman starts getting aggresive and does any part of the pursuing, it sets a bad precident later on for marriage.

    There is no satisfaction on the hunter's part if the prey walks up to him and starts chasing him! :eek:

    I guess I'm a little old-fashioned and still believe in the mystique of a woman.

    Oh, one more thing- while the man is the hunter, it never hurts to leave a bit of a trail! :D ;)
     
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    Joy,

    Yeah I sort of feel that way too but my husband has a different idea where that goes. He easily let me ask him out or let me call him, some guys now days get into that but I don't know ...mmmm hehehe

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  8. Joy

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    Well now honey, we weren't talking about after the marriage has already taken place! :D ;) We better save that for another forum! [​IMG]
     
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    No neither was I. I meant when we first started dating he wanted me to call him, in fact 90% of the guys I dated wanted that too.

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