I met a woman a few months back on eharmony and we have been chatting via phone, and MSN video chat ever since. She is mature in the Lord, seeks to please him, and is not the prostitute type, or seducing type. We have planed a trip and I will be flying out to see her soon. A buddy of mine works at the airline and is getting the tickets for under $100. A hotel cost on the cheap side would be $180 for 3 days and we have both looked extensively. She is a homeowner and did offer me a room in her house instead. I am leaning towards taking it, but some may say I would be harming my testimony. However as we are both mature in the Lord, and we are not high school or college age, I think it would be okay. I understand for a high school or college type person and the running harmones, but we are both professionals. She has a professional career and one that has paid enough for her to buy a house. What do you say? I'd hate to have to fork out the $180 or so in hotel fees when I am unemployed, but if necessary I will. I think this would be a good time to take this trip before I find another job.