We had a lady in our church, who loves to give financially to help others. I am thankful for her gift of giving, but at times it seems those who she helps may be taking advantage. My basic motto is I will help the needy, but not the greedy. Linda says once you have given something to someone, let it go. My thought is if I am helping someone I want to know that they are using the help in a proper way and not abusing it. I am a "give a man a fish-he will eat for a day, teach a man how to fish- he will eat for a lifetime" So do you agree with Linda - "once you give it, let it go"