I have a wonderful church, and I would love to participate in several of the programs that the church offers, but there is this one woman who just grates on my nerves who seems to take charge of these programs. We got off on a bad foot the first time I ever met her. I was new to the church. Had just suffered a divorce I tried desperately NOT to have, and was determined to repair my marriage the minute God showed me how. She and her husband volunteered to substitute for my Sunday School teacher. The class was for adult singles. Some were widows, some were never married, some were like myself. The first words out of their mouths were that they were thrilled they could help us find mates so we wouldn't be old maids forever. It was so wrong on so many levels I didn't even know what to say. I literally had to pray for God to give me strength not to just walk out at that moment. I haven't liked her since then. I have prayed about it. I've asked forgiveness for my attitude, but it was the first of many similar remarks, and it seems the minute I forgive one, another comes up. I heard about a program for youth which is something I did for years, so I attended the planning session. Everytime someone made a suggestion she would say, "No. That's not how we're going to do it. I've run this for years. I know what needs to be done." I've tried to attend a few things even though I know she is taking it over, but .. I catch myself just gritting my teeth. So, how do you handle that?