My parents have been in a Reformed Baptist Church for a long time. The preaching and theology they agree with very much, however I have noticed the church has shrank very much over the years. A big major reason is because the pastors wife is a major gossip and without any elders, deacons or anyone else in charge but the pastor & his wife have no accountability and the pastor is not holding his wife accountable. They'd hate going to a Arminian church, or a moderate Calvinist Church like Calvary Chapel (which they did once and left) etc.. There are no other Reformed Baptist churches within a reasonable sunday drive, so they are stuck it may appear. I will also add that the church is Independent so its either the pastors way or the highway. What can be done if anything? They did however find a good church a little farther away and the preacher loves John MacArthur, has accountability, and its a good church. They are not pure Reformed but just Calvinistic. They may have to fess up and go there. Ones character qualities shows up in their lifestyles, even if they are not 100% accurate in their secondary issues.