I have a friend who's husband will not work. He's not looked for a job in over a year and he just will not work to support their family. How they are paying bills right now I have no idea, but they have no money right now to pay for food, rent or anything else. She wants to get a job but her husband does not want her to so she's submitting to him in this but it means an unsure future for her family (with children). I know I'm a very strong-willed person and this would be an issue for me and I'd take matters into my own hand and get a job but I'm not sure that would be the right thing to do. So how would you counsel her?