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"Husband of one wife"

Discussion in 'Baptist Theology & Bible Study' started by Alcott, Aug 20, 2006.

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  1. Must be married

    5 vote(s)
    13.9%
  2. Must never have been divorced

    7 vote(s)
    19.4%
  3. Must never have been divorced, unless it was done before being saved

    1 vote(s)
    2.8%
  4. Must not be divorced and (legally) remarried

    6 vote(s)
    16.7%
  5. Must not have been divorced and (legally) remarried, unless this was before being saved

    1 vote(s)
    2.8%
  6. Must be a man

    14 vote(s)
    38.9%
  7. Must not have 2 or more spouses (by law or otherwise)

    20 vote(s)
    55.6%
  8. Must not be widowed

    1 vote(s)
    2.8%
  9. Must not widowed, unless remarried

    2 vote(s)
    5.6%
  10. Must be known to the congregation as having no more than one ‘love interest’ at a time

    7 vote(s)
    19.4%
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  1. npetreley

    npetreley New Member

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    I was going to say the same thing.
     
  2. Christian

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    OK, let's try one more:

    Rom 7:2 For example, by law a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive, but if her husband dies, she is released from the law of marriage. 3 So then, if she marries another man while her husband is still alive, she is called an adulteress. But if her husband dies, she is released from that law and is not an adulteress, even though she marries another man. (NIV)

    [Wouldn't the same apply to the husband if he married another woman while his first wife was still lived? (it would be adultery)]
     
  3. webdog

    webdog Active Member
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    Good question. I'm not sure the converse can automatically be assumed, though.
     
  4. Brother Bob

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    The only way a preacher with us can have been married twice is if the first one died. If he is divorced and marries again, for any reason, his credentials are taken. I must say it is not completely accepted by everyone but they do have to live by it. I should of said "we have to live by it". If a preacher is divorced and does not marry again then he can keep his credentials but very few ever are able to live that way.
     
  5. Christian

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    Compare then:

    Rom 7:2 For example, by law a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive, but if her husband dies, she is released from the law of marriage. 3 So then, if she marries another man while her husband is still alive, she is called an adulteress. But if her husband dies, she is released from that law and is not an adulteress, even though she marries another man. (NIV)


    Mt 19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. (KJV)

    These verses are similar but in reverse gender. The reason vs. 9 is adultery is because he is still married to the first wife in God's eyes. From vs. 6 in Matthew What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder, (not the lawyer, not the judge, not even oneself), we see that the marriage is still in effect in Gods eyes. The first is his wife; the second is his partner in adultery. (the same as Rom 7:2,3

    So taking another wife, in the absence divorce for fornication or death constitutes adultery. Therefore polygamy equals adultery.
     
  6. npetreley

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    No. The rules for men and women were quite very different in the law. For example, there is a provision in the law for a husband to write his wife a certificate of divorce. There is no provision for a wife to write her husband a certificate of divorce. There are also examples of men with multiple wives without being considered guilty of any wrongdoing (right or wrong, they weren't breaking the law). I'm not aware of anywhere in the Bible where a woman had multiple husbands (at the same time).
     
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