Im visiting a church where I am the only man wearing blue jeans. All the men are wearing suits, clean shaven and have short haircuts. I love the preaching at this church. I love the use of the KJV. I love the old time hymns but like to listen to other music when not at church (which I think that most don't) All the women wear dresses but my wife or I don't mind that cause she likes wearing skirts to church anyways. I dont have a suit though and really cant see the need to spend 100 bucks on something I'm only going to wear to church. Im a jeans kinda guy anyways. Im an underground utility worker. Im in the mud everyday from 5 to 30 feet deep. A suit just isnt my thing. Neither is being clean shaven. I have a goatee to protect my face during the winter months. The people here are real nice and friendly...but is that just because im still just visiting? This is the only thing that is keeping me from joining. I love the fundementals preached here. I just do not see how I can join a church that requires me to wear expensive "show off" clothes, cut my hair like a marine (which I do anyways), shave, listen only to hymns no matter where Im at or require my wife to wear dresses all the time. So far no one has given me a "rule sheet" but I feel that there is one. Any way to find out? What should I do? My wife loves this church and so do I, I'm just very uncomfortable thinking everyone thinks I'm sinning cause I don't fit the cookie cutter mold.