Is it possible to "support" gay marriage, but still not agree with the lifestyle? I put "support" in quotes so to say that you are not necessarily encouraging it, but do not think it should be illegal. In other words, just as it is not illegal to commit adultry, you still don't believe it is right to do so. DISCLAIMER: I am in no way in agreement with homosexuality, or gay marriage. I am just posing a thought. Let me put it another way, can a person be wrong on an interpretation...but still be effective? Would you use the all-to-often used slogan "another jesus" at someone who in all other areas of life would seem to be orthodox? Please understand this is just a thought, that doesn't even necessarily have to be applied to homosexuality or gay marriage. Pick something else if you have to.