On another thread one of the members was told to submit to her husband, get off the BB, and was called a heathen. Now this is not how I understand Biblical submission to one's husband, or one's husband to one's wife either. So exactly what is submission? Eph 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. Col 3:18 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord. Are we to sit meekly in a ball in the corner until ordered by our men to do something like make their supper or clip their toenails, or are we strong right arms, with a wonderful God-given mind who respects our husbands and looks to him for comfort, strength, encouragement and support. Is a husband a boss or a partner? What do you think? What is submission?