Colossians Chapter 3:19 Husbands, love [your] wives, and be not bitter against them. Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 5:26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 5:27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. 5:28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. 5:29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: 5:30 For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. 5:31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. 5:32 This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. 5:33 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife [see] that she reverence [her] husband. it is so easy for us men to "say" we love our wives, but how often to we "practice" our love for our wives? how often do we put our wife's happieness in front of ours? (I know I am guilty of that) how often do we get angry because our wife wont "submitt"? (I have been guity of that too) how often do we ask our wife to sacrifice her dreams so we can pursue our own? (guilty) how often has a wife gone out of her way to be considerate, or do something for her husband, and us men dont even take notice cause we are wraped up in our own selfish, egotistical doings?(guilty) how often will we put gratification of our lust, over our wifes marital needs? ( ) I could go on about this, but I would rather hear the wifes side of it, how else are we going to believe if we don't hear it from them (Out of the hoarses mouth, so to speak)?