Mine is a male perspective. Hopefully some of our ladies will help with theirs. Find a way you can serve Christ together with her: visitation, prayer times, etc. Have family devotions with her and your kids--with just her and you if you're newlyweds or your kids are grown. Do Bible studies with her. We're going through Heb. 11 right now because she wanted to study faith. Share with her what you are reading, and read out loud to her your favorite passages. Watch a good movie with her. Patty will watch a Jackie Chan movie with me and I'll watch a rom-com with her. She'll even laugh at the Three Stooges with me! Find a TV show you both like and order the DVDs. Looking at a broadcast show with her is fine, but we like the DVDs better--you can FF commercials and inappropriate scenes. We're going through Stargate SG1 for the 2nd time, and Season 5 of Get Smart. Take her to a ball game, either just you two or with another couple. Do NOT go with you, her and some men. She just wants to be with you, and maybe even will become a fan. Go shopping at the mall. Even go in a clothing store with her and stand around looking helpless! Ladies dig this. If you can't hack the shopping, get a good book and sit in the food court, just being there waiting for her. Go take in a museum together. Patty and I love to go to an "English Garden" outside of town at the Ueno family farm. For a nominal entry ticket (we get the season ticket), there are a couple of acres of beautiful flowers. Afterwards we get lunch at the cafe on the grounds.