Marriage

I don't know that it's such a good idea. Maybe it's different for you, but it was not a good idea for me. Also, the Adam that I'm interested in was always the one that came to me when his other girlfriends broke up with him. I had a girl blame me for their break up. There was another girl that he thought was the one for him. It hurt a lot to be bumped out of the spot of number one girl. I had been there for so long. Even when he would date someone else, I was the number one girl. It hurt more to listen to him cry and want to tell him that I love him, but knowing that the timing was not right. So, I kept my mouth shut. The hardest part was listening to him paint glowing word pictures about Jennifer (The other girl). I really liked Jennifer, and still do, but it was so hard knowing that I loved him, and knowing that he loved her. I guess what I'm trying to say is that it may not be the best idea, because feelings can get mixed up. Use Godly discernment. He will let you know what to say and who to say it to.
Grace

 

Grace, things are forever reminding me of songs, and your post about Adam was no different! Here are some of the lyrics of the song that popped into my head:

"All of the nights you came to me,
When some silly girl had set you free.
You wondered how you'd make it through;
I wondered what was wrong with you.

'Cause how could you give your love to someone else
And share your dreams with me.
Sometimes the very thing you're looking for
Is the one thing you can't see.

But now we're standing face-to-face.
Isn't this world a crazy place?
Just when I thought our chance had passed,
You go and save the best for last."--Vanessa Williams

It sounds like you have the right attitude and spirit. I hope everything turns out great for you!

Elizabeth

 

I think that it is important to maintain your friendships and keep them growing no matter who they are with. Personally, I have a female friend whom I will talk to about issues in my life, even my g/f but at the same time there is nothing that I would not talk to my g/f about...

So Baptistforever, I think it is okay for you to discuss with Chris whatever you feel comfortable discussing with Chris about.

UNP,
Adam

 

Yup, as long as it isn't anything behind my back, and I know you would not do that so no problemo here

Though I do wish that I knew him better

UNP
Adam