Matthew 7:13-14 "Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it. Notice that Jesus said that only a few find the narrow gate. Jesus did not say that only a few are guided to the narrow gate. It seems to me that Jesus is saying that we are allowed to choose our own destiny.