A female pastor of a false church got back to me and I thought of the idea of meeting her in her office or so forth and in gentleness and respect reasoning with her about the error of her church and her teachings. I would make it clear I am married. My old pastor would do this kind of thing often with false teachers in attempts to persuade them. He was not a street evangelist but a apologist. A good idea or should I just attempt by phone? 1 Pet 3:15 NIV is a model verse for apologetics. Ron Rhodes has many books arguing for doing this kind of thing with false teachers.