OK, now that I've got everyones attention. I have a problem I have a dear friend of the family who has become Messianic. She was a gentile believer. Sunday school teacher and quite well versed in God's Word. Now, she has become Messianic and has gotten my adult children involved to the point I can no longer enjoy Honey Ham at home. But, the worst of it is, is that it's in direct conflict with Galatians 3-5. I have no problem with voluntary observance because the feasts and holidays are a beautiful "Type" of the New Covenant in Christ Jesus. But, when I press for an answer as to whether these are legally required I get a response that they are being observed, "Just in Case". That is What Christ has done on the Cross may not be quite enough. To which I have to say, "Where is the confidence in whom you've commited your soul to?" Can't they trust Christ to perfect them without a fearful, "Just In case". Then the behavior is that of a cult operator in that infomration is passed to members of my family... But, not to me, the "supposed" Spiritual Head of Household under both Judaism and Christianity. If I press further I am immediately hit with keeping the 10 commandments. OK I believe that we are obligated to keep the moral laws of God. But, not as a "just in case" but because of the Freedom we have in Christ not to sin. To resist sin in His Spirit. But, even there His grace is sufficient. As in Matthew 7:12 Of course as soon as any acknowledgment of the ten commandments is made you have the proverbial Camels Nose under the tent and she immediately starts in on the Mosaic Laws, food laws, and sabbath keeping. If I set her in her place I lose my adult children. And, to be honest she really is a good friend and I do like her, as does my wife. The latest confusion for my wife comes from a facebook post every one in my family got but me on how demonic and unscriptural Chrstmas is! (Man, if any voice had the "Spookey Dude" hypnotic quality this voice did. It sounded more satanic in it's timber and quality than anything I've heard to date!) Lastly, there is a clear mind set about physical actions without any regard to the heart state. For instance it doesn't matter if my wife likes setting up a tree for its sheer beauty without any other reasons. But, to this Messianic the mere fact that a tree is set up is evil and means you are evil, too. Quite Frustrated, Clueless, and not at all sure how to proceed.