Try not to get too harsh in the responses because I'm going through this for the second time this year and trying to cope... but at the same time, I've got to admit, I'm absolutely sick of people saying: Well, that's just God's way of saying "not right now". Well, that's just God's way of saying "something wasn't right". etc., etc., etc., etc. First of all, if dead babies is God's way of communicating, I think it's rather messed up. Secondly, if he really did want to intervene in this manner... why wouldn't he just prevent the pregnancy in the first place??? I mean, if he really wanted to do something to prevent you from having a child right now, why wouldn't he just not allow conception? Why would he allow that baby to grow, to allow you to hear the heartbeat, then after 2 months just be like "whoopsies, I changed my mind"??? I'm sure saying these things is the only way that some people can cope, mostly due to people not thinking about it too deeply, but it just gives me cold chills and turns me off when I hear people say it. Just wondering what everybody else's thoughts on the subject is. Personally I think bad stuff just happens in nature and there's usually a scientific explanation for it but that's just me.