*Spoken in a movie critics tone of voice* You know what really irks me? Well not people who care about you, but people who care about you who think that they have one up on God's will for you because they are older. That's not at all to say older people aren't as a general rule wiser. But when someone basically says "I don't agree with your decision so it has to be satan who is influencing you", that really irks me. As most of you baptistforever and I will be getting married before long here, and there have been a couple of people who don't have faith in our decision to get married because of their own past experiences. Everything from you haven't been together long enough (2 years seems like quite a while to me, granted only about a year and a quarter of that has been steady), to, you only want to get married so you can get in bed with each other (Puh-leeze! We each know how to get into a bed perfectly fine by ourselves, we don't need each other to do that . Why do elders have to be such pains sometimes? Us younger people are always perfect (God I'm kidding, please don't strike me with lightening ).