Recently, our Church has voted to allow a small korean group to use our sunday school facilities to hold their worship services while we are in Worship. It has come to my attention that one of my Church members has been attending Sunday school regularly with us but is MIA during worship. I have found out that he has been asked by the korean group to watch over two children that are a little too "rowdy" to be in worship so they have asked our member to watch them. Several Church members, especially the choir (he is a choir member) have voiced concern over his neglecting worship. He used to be avid in visitation, church attendance, and choir. Now he is coming less and less. Could you please give any advice you may have on what you would do if you had a similar situation.