I'll try to be as succinct as possible. Father and I have been estranged for two years, his choice, not mine. He is undergoing surgery next week and may not make it. While I pray daily for reconciliation between us, I am more concerned about his status with God. How can I inquire about his soul? Or can I? I feel at peace about how things are between us - I have tried everything to reconcile - he refuses. But, it is breaking my heart not knowing about his eternal status should he not make it. Any advice on how to inquire without coming off sounding "holier than thou"? Thanks.