Occasionally, I visit my husband's church, and approximately 1 out of every 3 times that I have visited, they are doing "communion." I do not participate. I just read this on another thread here: "Refusing to take communion is the sin of disobedience." While I know this statement is not true, it does make me wonder if my not joining them is seen as rude, as an affront? If it is, this does not mean I will participate, but I would be more careful about when I visit, since my husband, as a board member, likely knows when they will be serving it, and I could ask. I certainly do not mean to be offensive.