Its amazing that we can trust that many people now and days. I went to get an oil change at Mobil and they really disappointed me. First I see him pull the oil stick, wipe a little from the top and take it to me and say " Wow...do you see that, you are missing a quart of oil. Thats a oil pan leak " I was like.. no its not.... then he says and "your oil is so dirty my God...you need a special fluid that cleans that gunk out right a.s.a.p " I tell him... Brother!! I change my oil every 2,000 miles...just changed it a month ago.. my oil is fine... my oil pan is fine... I dont have a leak... I dont want to buy anything... I was so upset.. Where has trust gone now and days?? Whats the worst thing another Christian has done to you??? Has it affected the way you trust people now?? Why can we forgive but not forget?? Its so hard sometimes to forget.. My best friend who I consider my brother. He was a deacon at our church, he tried kicking it to my wife or in other words tried to get her to leave me by telling her that I was cheating on her and stuff and he won some money. I was heated when my wife told me and confronted him and it was true... I forgave him but since...its been hard because I still remember and it gets me upset.. what can I do. Is it normal?