Please don't flame me for asking this. I know how wrong this is, but apparently not all pastors do? This weekend I was speaking with a friend and she was telling me her daughter was going to live with her boyfriend after the lease on his house is up. You could have knocked we over with a feather. I know she professes to be born again and attends a local Baptist Church. I asked my friend if her daughter is still attending church and said "yes". So I boldly asked how could her daughter consider this since it is so clear in the Bible that this is sin. Her answer was that her daughter asked her pastor and he said it was OK because that's how it is in society today. My answer to that was "She needs a new pastor". Are there really pastors telling anyone that living together in lieu of marriage is OK? I have NEVER run into any pastor that would put his stamp of approval on this arrangement, but then we don't get around much. Shocked doesn't really explain my thoughts. More importantly, what should we say when told something like this? Other than pointing out scripture, what should we do?