I am wondering if it is the duties of the pastor to visit members in the hospital, especially when you let him know a month ahead of time and then again the night before. I had let my pastors wife know the night before I had to go in the hospital for shoulder surgery, I told her that I had to be there at 0530 but he could be there around 7:30 or 8am. He didn't stop by or even call. I left the hospital at 2pm. He did call the cell phone on my way home from the hosp. and talked to my Wife, he asked her if I was upset at him since it had been a week since we had talked on the phone. I had left him 2 messages the week before on his cell phone, I guess he didn't look at it. So, here is the question, my Wife and I are both upset that he didn't stop by the hosp. When he did call he didn't even mention the hospital my Wife had to say I couldn't talk cause I was still goofy from all the drugs they gave me. Did my Pastor drop the ball on his responsibilities? We belong to a small church, only about 100 members total. Thanks in advance abd God Bless!