I found a discussion in another forum where an unbeliever asks a few interesting questions. Actually I have thought the very same things, too, and wasn't able to answer them very well. What do you say about these things? Some things are really not easy to answer and sometimes I feel as if christians simply have their standard answers to such hard questions. I don't know where these answers come from, maybe an intelligent christian once came up with answers to tough questions and then these answers were taught to all christians and now they simply repeat them but how do we even know that they are correct? What if we simply repeat everything what we were told? Anyway, here is the quote. The author basically argues that we have no free will because God is like: "Either you love me and obey me, or you're going to hell."