Do you pray? I tried to find a verse that dealt with man's sovereign free will, but I couldn't, so this will have to do. Revelation 3:20 Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and dine with him, and he with Me. If God is a "perfect gentleman" as you all say, then why would you pray for Him to move in someone's heart to bring them to the point of salvation? Why pray if God is powerless to change someone unless they want Him to?