Just want to get reactions to the following: 1. If you attended a church where the Ministry has no problem with out right lying to their members what would you do? 2. If you approached a deacon about getting help for a family in the church who is having financial problems (in a church of 800 members) and you were told the church does not help charity cases. How would you react? 3. If the pastors wife turns her nose up to most members except the wealthy how would you react. Thanks for your responses.