I'm pretty scared and confused. In Nigeria is a pastor who had been dead for 3 days.He was resurrected at a conference of the evangelist Reinhard Bonnke.This pastor died and was taken to heaven by angels. The day before he died his wife beat him and he was very angry cause in Nigeria wifes do not beat their husbands. She wanted to apologize two times but he did not accept it. The angel showed him heaven and then he showed him hell.Here is an excerpt of his story. According to Reinhard Bonnke it is all true. The most surprising thing is what happened next. The escorting angel told pastor Daniel, “If your record is to be called here, you will in no doubt be thrown into hell.” Pastor Daniel immediately defended himself saying, “I am a man of God! I serve Him with all my heart!” But a Bible appeared in the angel’s hand, and it was opened to Matthew 5 where Jesus warned that if one calls his brother a fool he is guilty enough to go into the hell of fire (see Matt. 5:21-22). Pastor Daniel knew he was guilty for the angry words he had spoken to his wife. The angel also reminded him that Jesus promised that God will not forgive our sins if we do not forgive others (see Matt. 6:14-15), because we will reap what we have sown. Only those who are merciful will obtain mercy (Matt 5:7). The angel told Daniel that the prayers he prayed as he was dying in the hospital were of no effect, because he refused to forgive his wife even when she attempted to reconcile on the morning of his fatal accident. Pastor Daniel wept at this revelation, but the angel told him not to cry, because God was going to send him back to the earth to grant the rich man’s request (see Luke 16:27-30). A man would come back from the dead and warn people of hell. The angel said that Daniel’s resurrection would serve as a sign and be the last warning for this generation. I find this totally confusing and scary. Would God really send a christian to hell because of something like this? Where is the security? The bible says nothing can snatch us out of his hands. I don't even know what to think of God anymore. I mean doesn't he love us? This sounds like God will send us to hell because of every little sin. This is very scary. What if you die and expect to go to heaven and then you are rejected cause you sinned and did not repent or imagine you argue with somebody and are totally angry and cannot apologize right away and then you die, this would mean you go to hell. I don't even know what to think of God anymore. Is God my friend or is he only waiting for a reason to send me to hell? This is what I mean with knowing God. Imagine you die and expect to go to heaven and then God sends you to hell cause you sinned or did something wrong. This is so scary.