Lately I've been preferring to wear skirts, though I have maternity pants and shorts left over (I have not yet lost the weight I gained from my pregnancy with my son--though I am working on it). I only have like 2 skirts to wear. Anyway...my husband (who claims to be Christian--not for me to judge) says he wants me to wear jeans and short skirts. I am extremely uncomfortable with the idea of wearing short skirts in public, as for one thing I am self-conscious and I do NOT want perverts whistling at me! I'd be more than willing to wear "sexy" clothes in the privacy of our home for him--but not in public! I have no problem with wearing jeans, so long as they're not tight. I also have to wear pants to work as I am a packer in a processing plant, and it's extremely impractical to wear a skirt to work. (Hopefully I can find some work at home opportunity and wave bye-bye to that place!) BTW I think men-in-pants women-in-skirts is just traditional and that clothing depends on the customs and society. What about societies where they wear only robes? Back to the subject on hand: If my husband doesn't want me to be *that* modest, what do I do? I'm on leave of absence from work due to a bum ankle and I said I'd dress modestly while he was at work so as not to tempt anyone while at the store or something...he seemed to agree but seemed a bit reluctant. Comments? I really need help!