My Wife's 26 y/o son is getting married in May 07 and they want to fly to one of the islands in the carribian to do it. Total cost approx. 8,000.00 dollars. They want each family( there are 3) from a divorce to split the costs. They will have the reception back in the US. I told my Wife that we couldn't do it and that it wasn't right for us to do it anyway. Because of the broken marriages they don't want a local wedding. Proper ediquite stated the Brides family pays for the wedding and the groom pays for the rehersal dinner. My Wife's Son is how do I say, SPOILED and it's time the silver spoon gets pulled out of his mouth. He borrowed 4,000 from us for his engagement ring and has yet made an attempt to repay us although he is supped to pay it in full this month. This situation is causing friction in OUR household. Any insight to this would be appreciated.