what would you teach to your kids?

hello!

And Amen to your conversion! Praise His name!

It is an awesome task, and privilege, to raise children for the Lord.

First of all, your personal walk and testimony is everything. They won't learn what we have to teach them about the Bible when we are living inconsitently to the Bible.

As a father, you are to be the model of their Heavenly Father! What an awesome responsibility!

As a family set on raising children who will grow up to be useful to the Lord, we try our best to fulfil Deuteronomy 6:5-7

And thou shalt love the LORD thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might. And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up.

Well, there maybe many failings in this weak flesh of ours as parents, but this verse is key to the all consuming task of teaching our children about God. With God's help, we seek to do this.

And what a joy it is to introduce to our children the Living God!

 

Greetings, and welcome! You are to be commended for being concerned about these things even before you have children of your own. That shows a great deal of maturity and responsibility.

My advice is three-part. First, kids learn by example. So seeing mom and dad living the way the Bible teaches is the main way your children will learn.

The next important thing is to make your family an active part of a Bible-believing church. Attending Sunday School and services EVERY week, and participating in all age-appropriate activities. As a Sunday School teacher I see too many kids whose families are only marginally involved, and so the kids attend once every two or three weeks or so. It seems they come to church only if they do not have something else to do that seems more important. We teach with planned lessons, that build on a topic or value each week, in logical sequence. So how can these kids benefit from that without continuity?

The third thing would be to have your kids attend an evangelical Christian School, if possible. There is nothing sadder than the confusion kids are faced with when what they are taught in school is in direct opposition to what they read in the Bible and hear taught at church. If a Christian school is not an option, then providing kids with the truth at home when their school is teaching otherwise is important.

Being an example, having a family church life and a Christian education are the three most important things you can do for your children in the area of values and learning how to live a life that honors the Lord.

 

We all very often have such high hopes and great resolutions for how we will raise our kids.
Things don't always work out the way we planned. Jobs, illness, fights with a spouse, so many things can ruin the best of intentions.

There are a few things I have always stuck with no matter what when it comes to my children. Here are the main ones, not it any particular order.

1. We all owe it to ourselves and our world to make it a better place. When thinking of what you'll do with your life, don't only think of what would be best for you, think of what talents you have that you would like to use AND that will help make the world a better place.

2. (kinda goes along with three) Learning is key to all we do in life. Getting passing grades in classes is not enough. We must diligently study what is available to learn, and learn how to use the information we come across. If asked why it is important to learn, my kids will reply "because we need to be able to know enough to make our world a better place".

3. God is a fact, not an idea that some people have and some people don't. He is at the center of everything we learn.

4. Family is family. It is never good to hurt someone, physically, verbally, or otherwise, and that goes double for members of this family. If a member of this family needs to be defended you will defend them. I've also made it a goal to be honest but never badmouth their dad around them. (we are divorced)

5. Charity is a part of life. Having "stuff" is nice, but people in need come before you buying something you don't need.

6. If you dislike someone don't ignore them, get to know them. Be their friend. Do things for them and with them. It's very hard to hold ill feelings toward someone once you truly get to know them and understand who they are and why.

Gina

 

I would teach them the Scripture.

I would teach them the value of hard work.

I would teach them to love God and his word.

Joseph Botwinick

 

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Yes, it's hard enough to be married to someone from a different culture, let alone raise children. I don't recommend attempting it at all unless you're a very strong person and ready to face all the challenges that come along with true commitment.
Some of the things can be melded. I am an American Christian with a Jewish background who married someone from China who believed in Buddha. (I wasn't a Christian at the time)
I couldn't begin to tell you the things that changed. We didn't exactly do any of them normal. We ate latkes with chopsticks and held off on celebrating New Years until Feb.when it could be combined with the Chinese New Year.
We made our own new unique traditions that worked for all of us, blending the best parts of what we both liked about our own.
I refused to accept jade replicas of false gods as jewelry for my children, but allowed jade jewelry and one "good luck charm".

Don't stress it too much. Your in laws will do a lot of the arguing FOR you guys.
Gina

 

Ditto! I would only add to this the golden rule! In Christ, WT

 

Hey Gina!

Is your husband saved now?
What's his family name?