At another christian board there is a woman whose son is disabled. He's 24 years old and life is really hard for them cause he needs so much attention and in the last time they have to go to the ER very often cause his condition is getting worse. Why doesn't God heal him? I mean this makes God look like he's cruel and doesn't care. If this was my son then I'd think that God has something against me cause he doesn't heal him. She said she has been praying for healing for years. The evangelist who runs the site on the other hand has the opinion that God wants to heal everybody and that means that it's basically her fault cause she doesn't have enough faith for his healing. Could you deal with this? I mean how can you stay cool in such a situation? I would feel like God hates me cause he doesn't heal my son. Could you deal with this?